Troubled Bond: Pose A Threat to Every Relationship Between Family Members
In the coming decades, children's growing independence may reshape the traditional bond between mothers and sons. This shift could potentially weaken the strong bond that has long been a hallmark of the mother-son relationship, according to experts.
The role of the family father in this dynamic is significant. His background presence or absence can significantly impact the bond between mother and son. In some cases, the absence of paternal authority can hinder a son's ability to learn independence outside the family, while in others, it could strengthen the bond between mother and son.
The term "mama's boy" refers to a son's extreme dependence on his mother. This dependence can stem from various psychological causes, such as parentification, where the son unconsciously takes on a parental role to meet the mother's emotional needs. This deeply enmeshed bond can later strain his romantic relationships due to ongoing patterns of over-responsibility and blurred boundaries.
Many men expect a level of care in their marriages similar to what they received from their mothers. This expectation can lead to trouble in relationships, as partners may feel overwhelmed by the demands for care and attention. Men who are used to being taken care of may struggle with the expectation of equality in a partnership.
Refusal to become self-sufficient can lead to anger from partners, as men who continue to orient themselves towards their mothers may find it challenging to adapt to the demands of a healthy partnership. In some cases, men may continue to seek care from their mothers, such as bringing warm soup to their marital bed or asking them to repair clothes.
Sudden self-sufficiency can be challenging for men who were accustomed to being taken care of by their mothers. Psychologists suggest that guilt is one of the reasons sons may not detach themselves enough from their mothers. Men who continue to rely on their mothers for care may face anger from their partners.
Today's society sees many women as career-oriented and responsible for childcare, leaving less time for traditional tasks like cooking, laundry, and ironing. Mothers who have "sacrificed" half their lives for their sons and fulfilled all their wishes may experience reciprocation as their son's duty. However, this can create a sense of dependence in the son that can be difficult to break.
In light of these challenges, psychologists advise today's "mama's boys" to maintain a good relationship with their mother but to clearly set boundaries and lead their own independent life to ensure a healthy partnership. Children growing up today with a working mother are less accustomed to being taken care of from infancy and are thus more independent.
Without paternal authority, experts say, no freedom can be created to show sons the way to life outside the family. This lack of guidance could potentially weaken the bond between mother and son, as the son learns to navigate life's challenges on his own.
As the world continues to evolve, the bond between mother and son will undoubtedly change. Understanding these dynamics and navigating them carefully will be crucial for both parties to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
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